Suicide warning signs
Some of the significant warning signs that a person is at risk of self harm include…
+ LANGUAGE
- I can’t do this anymore.
- I can’t take this anymore.
- I won’t be around forever.
- I just want to go to sleep and not wake up.
- What is the point?
- I just want it all to be over.
- I just want it all to go away.
- Suddenly very quiet.
+ MOOD
- Withdrawn
- Sudden relief/relaxed mood
- Different to usual energy and character
- Losing interest in previous activities
+ PHYSICAL
- Sleep issues.
- Many autistic people have sleep disturbance, so it needs to be different to usual patterns.
- Taking less care of appearance.
- Weight loss or gain.
+ BEHAVIOUR
- Giving away possessions
- Writing a will
- Writing a manual for a business
- Writing lists of passwords to access accounts
- Writing letters
- Writing suicide notes
- Researching ways to die
- Buying or getting access to something dangerous
- Increased alcohol or other drug (AOD) use
Despite a widely held belief that autistic people do not have AOD problems, this isn’t the case and therefore they can have a myriad of risk factors (i.e., AOD + mental health diagnosis + ASD). The more cooccurring difficulties someone has, the higher their suicide risk.
- Increased high risk behaviour (e.g., speeding, spending money)
- Self-harm behaviour
- Saying good-bye
- Drawing or writing about death or suicide
WARNING SIGNS TO BE MORE AWARE OF IF PERSON IS ON THE AUTISM SPECTRUM:
Increased self-harm behaviour
Significant withdrawal, being very quiet, being very reserved
Increased aggression
Increase in ‘meltdowns’ or ‘shutdowns’: emotional overwhelm
Increase in watching TV shows with themes of death and suicide
Increase in listening to songs with themes about death and suicide
Autistic people often have very specific interests. For some people this can be the idea of death and may not actually represent suicidal thinking. However, you won’t know if you don’t ask.
Drawing about death
Giving away money and personal items
Clearing out lockers, desks, etc.
Increased mistakes in work (paid or domestic)
Difficulty concentrating