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Taking care of yourself

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How to use this tool

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How to detect and respond to suicide risk in others.

In an emergency always call 000. For support, call Lifeline: 13 11 14.

 

Most people thinking about suicide do not seek professional help but do indicate their distress to family and friends. The community can help in the early detection of suicide risk, linking vulnerable people to professional support.

MTYTHS ABOUT SUICIDE

MYTH: Asking about suicide will plant the idea in someone’s head.

INFO: There is no evidence for this. Most people thinking about suicide feel relieved to talk about their thoughts and distress. Talking about specific methods to suicide increases risk.

SEXUAL, GENDER AND NEURO DIVERSE GROUPS

Some groups of people are more vulnerable and at risk of poor mental health and suicide than others, including neurodivergent or autistic people, and people who identify as LGBTIQP+. Members from these groups can experience up to 60 instances of discrimination per day and up to 70% of this group face challenges accessing appropriate mental health care who understand and support their diversity. It is vital to be aware of the different challenges and risk factors faced by people from these groups as part of suicide prevention as they are some of the most at-risk groups. The SRP was developed with people from these groups, and specifically identifies and discusses some of these challenges. It covers how to be a supportive ally, thereby mitigating suicide risk, for example, knowing that language matters. People usually respect when someone prefers a certain nickname. Using LGBTIQ+ people’s names and pronouns are no different. If you are unsure of someone’s pronoun or name, just ask them respectfully. When meeting someone new, use inclusive language by using gender neutral terms such as ‘partner’. For more tips on how to be an ally, visit the SRP website.

SUICIDE RISK FACTORS

  1. RECENT LOSS/CHANGE (e.g., relationship break-up)

  2. INTENSE EMOTION (e.g., shame, guilt, anger)

  3. HISTORY (e.g., trauma, previous suicide attempt)

  4. SITUATIONAL (e.g., bullying, discrimination)

  5. IDENTITY (e.g., LGBTIQ+ orientation, autistic, Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander background)

WARNING SIGNS

  1. LANGUAGE (e.g., I can’t do this anymore)

  2. MOOD (e.g., withdrawn, sudden relief)

  3. PHYSICAL (e.g., sleep issues, taking less care of self)

  4. BEHAVIOUR (e.g., giving away possessions, writing a will, writing letters, self-harm, substance use)

HOW TO INTERPRET RISKS AND WARNINGS

Suicide is hard to predict, even for professionals. Take all signs seriously.
If someone presents with just one risk factor or warning sign, act.

WHO SHOULD HELP?

Most people when presented with a situation needing action do nothing due to fear and assuming someone else will help. If we all wait, nothing happens leaving persons at risk vulnerable. Take any small step you can or ask someone else to step in.

WHAT TO SAY, ASK & DO

SAY: “You’ve had a lot going on lately with [INSERT WARNING/RISK FACTOR] (e.g, losing your job)”.

ASK: “With all this going on, have you had any thoughts about suicide?”

If yes, ask if they have thought about how/where/when and if they are finding it hard to not act on the thoughts.

If yes, get them to see a GP as soon as possible and make sure they are supported until then. If they can’t keep themselves safe that day, take them to hospital. Call 000 in an emergency.

If no, keep listening. You don’t have to fix it, just give them space to talk.

DO: Encourage help-seeking: help book GP and/or counselling appointments, encourage them to speak to family, friend, coach, chaplain, boss. Follow-up and check-in.

DON’T SAY: I know how you feel. Don’t worry so much. It’s not that bad. Think of the positives. Others have it worse.

DON’T ASK: What have you got to be sad about?

DON’T DO: Forget to check in or follow-up, become too involved, react strongly with shock, anger or frustration.

Encourage talking: What has been going on for you? What feels too much right now?

Show empathy and compassion: This sounds difficult. It makes sense you have been feeling hopeless. I can see why you are feeling so low. I may not know how to help but I care and I am here. You are not alone. You are important.

Longer-term support: 1. Reduce stress. 2. Increase connection. 3. Increase meaning. 4. Increase activity. 5. Improve health.

DECIDE AND PLAN TO HELP

You don’t need to have any answers. Just notice, show up, ask, listen, validate and call for professional help in an emergency. Plan your first step: a phone call or text to check in with someone. Write yours here:


TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF

Supporting others can be difficult. Maintain healthy relationship boundaries. While it is important that we all take personal responsibility to do something or find someone who can, the person at risks’ past, response and the outcome is not your responsibility. All we can do is know the signs and act.

 

Where to go for more help

In any emergency call 000.  


TELEPHONE: 

You and others don’t need to wait for an emergency to call. These services are there to listen. 

Lifeline

24-hour national telephone crisis counselling service and online counselling.

13 11 14

www.lifeline.org.au


Kids Helpline

Free confidential 24-hour telephone and online counselling for young people between 5 and 18.

1800 55 1800

W: www.kidshelp.com.au


Suicide Call Back Service

24-hour national telephone counselling service to people 18 years and over and online services.

1300 659 467

W: www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au


Beyondblue

24-hour telephone support and links to local services.

1300 22 4636

W: www.beyondblue.org.au


e-headspace

Telephone counselling for young people 12-25 years.

1800 650 890

W: www.eheadspace.org.au


Mensline

24/7 support for men regarding mental health, family violence, parenting, relationship support

W: https://mensline.org.au

1300 78 99 78


Parentline

Support for parents 8am-10pm, 7 days/week in QLD and NT

W: https://parentline.com.au

1300 30 1300


How to detect and respond to suicide risk in others.

In an emergency always call 000. For support, call Lifeline: 13 11 14.

 

Most people thinking about suicide do not seek professional help but do indicate their distress to family and friends. The community can help in the early detection of suicide risk, linking vulnerable people to professional support.

MTYTHS ABOUT SUICIDE

MYTH: Asking about suicide will plant the idea in someone’s head.

INFO: There is no evidence for this. Most people thinking about suicide feel relieved to talk about their thoughts and distress. Talking about specific methods to suicide increases risk.

SEXUAL, GENDER AND NEURO DIVERSE GROUPS

Some groups of people are more vulnerable and at risk of poor mental health and suicide than others, including neurodivergent or autistic people, and people who identify as LGBTIQP+. Members from these groups can experience up to 60 instances of discrimination per day and up to 70% of this group face challenges accessing appropriate mental health care who understand and support their diversity. It is vital to be aware of the different challenges and risk factors faced by people from these groups as part of suicide prevention as they are some of the most at-risk groups. The SRP was developed with people from these groups, and specifically identifies and discusses some of these challenges. It covers how to be a supportive ally, thereby mitigating suicide risk, for example, knowing that language matters. People usually respect when someone prefers a certain nickname. Using LGBTIQ+ people’s names and pronouns are no different. If you are unsure of someone’s pronoun or name, just ask them respectfully. When meeting someone new, use inclusive language by using gender neutral terms such as ‘partner’. For more tips on how to be an ally, visit the SRP website.

SUICIDE RISK FACTORS

  1. RECENT LOSS/CHANGE (e.g., relationship break-up)

  2. INTENSE EMOTION (e.g., shame, guilt, anger)

  3. HISTORY (e.g., trauma, previous suicide attempt)

  4. SITUATIONAL (e.g., bullying, discrimination)

  5. IDENTITY (e.g., LGBTIQ+ orientation, autistic, Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander background)

WARNING SIGNS

  1. LANGUAGE (e.g., I can’t do this anymore)

  2. MOOD (e.g., withdrawn, sudden relief)

  3. PHYSICAL (e.g., sleep issues, taking less care of self)

  4. BEHAVIOUR (e.g., giving away possessions, writing a will, writing letters, self-harm, substance use)

HOW TO INTERPRET RISKS AND WARNINGS

Suicide is hard to predict, even for professionals. Take all signs seriously.
If someone presents with just one risk factor or warning sign, act.

WHO SHOULD HELP?

Most people when presented with a situation needing action do nothing due to fear and assuming someone else will help. If we all wait, nothing happens leaving persons at risk vulnerable. Take any small step you can or ask someone else to step in.

WHAT TO SAY, ASK & DO

SAY: “You’ve had a lot going on lately with [INSERT WARNING/RISK FACTOR] (e.g, losing your job)”.

ASK: “With all this going on, have you had any thoughts about suicide?”

If yes, ask if they have thought about how/where/when and if they are finding it hard to not act on the thoughts.

If yes, get them to see a GP as soon as possible and make sure they are supported until then. If they can’t keep themselves safe that day, take them to hospital. Call 000 in an emergency.

If no, keep listening. You don’t have to fix it, just give them space to talk.

DO: Encourage help-seeking: help book GP and/or counselling appointments, encourage them to speak to family, friend, coach, chaplain, boss. Follow-up and check-in.

DON’T SAY: I know how you feel. Don’t worry so much. It’s not that bad. Think of the positives. Others have it worse.

DON’T ASK: What have you got to be sad about?

DON’T DO: Forget to check in or follow-up, become too involved, react strongly with shock, anger or frustration.

Encourage talking: What has been going on for you? What feels too much right now?

Show empathy and compassion: This sounds difficult. It makes sense you have been feeling hopeless. I can see why you are feeling so low. I may not know how to help but I care and I am here. You are not alone. You are important.

Longer-term support: 1. Reduce stress. 2. Increase connection. 3. Increase meaning. 4. Increase activity. 5. Improve health.

 

DECIDE AND PLAN TO HELP

You don’t need to have any answers. Just notice, show up, ask, listen, validate and call for professional help in an emergency. Plan your first step: a phone call or text to check in with someone. Write yours here:


TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF

Supporting others can be difficult. Maintain healthy relationship boundaries. While it is important that we all take personal responsibility to do something or find someone who can, the person at risks’ past, response and the outcome is not your responsibility. All we can do is know the signs and act.